3 generations under one roof

November 2005

With a first offence, he got license taken for 60 days, fines of 2000, 24 hours of community service, had to sit on victims impact panel and he also had to do D & A counseling. I seen the community service paper, he missed a day so they gave him to more in addition to the missed day. Sop he was at five, and he missed another one of those days so they gave him two more. With a DUI arrest, he lost his job as a cab driver.

He was living with a male friend so he would stop by and visit with the kids or take out youngest to visit for the weekend. He would stop and talk with me on a limited basis, when he felt like talking.

The fines were taken out of his paycheck and I knew he was still working as we got child support, so I assumed the fines were paid. He managed to do all seven days of community service, and I know the license was gone.

March 2006

I met someone else, and he did not like it. He knew I was moving on and he hated it. Tried all sorts of things to make it up to me, but I ignored it all. I had gotten a taste of a healthy relationship and I was happy to be out of that abusive type of love he thrived upon.

 Stay tuned for the next blog

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I am at 897104 page views as of the latest update on associated content, so I see a million page views dangling in front of me. I have never had a million of anything before so it is exciting to see it happening.

In early July, 2008 I had broken 200,000 and that was after writing since April 2007. I figured it would take forever to hit the million-view mark, I was wrong. I was wrong because I lucked out and had a few insanely popular articles that have brought me way up in a few short months.  I have been going up on average about 12,000 to 14,000 page views an update which is 3 or 4 days, so with just 103,000 or so to go it will be occurring rather soon.  

I do find it rather pitiful the articles, which seem to make the money online, are the articles that are SEO’ed to the max when I have written several articles that are do nicely about stuff that matters. I know I should not complain as I am finally getting decent page view bonuses, but I would rather have them for the other articles.  

This freelance writing thing is beyond tough when your a single mom, but i have been doing it for a year now, and I has to get better. I have had my application in wal-mart locally for over a year, my boyfriend who has worked there for 9 years talked to the store manager about me today. I am keeping my fingers and toes crossed.

Do not get me wrong I love writing but it is so hard to get the money needed to survive. I am so tired of scraping by all week, and having to go without. I just would love to have an extra 200 or 300 a month to help with these raising fuel bills that I know will bowl me under this winter. I do make almost the salary I made at work as an aide, but you all know it takes two incomes to run a house and as a single mom the burden falls on me. Yes, my daughter helps, she pays the electric bill but the rest of them tax me to the limit.  She and the kids will soon be moving out and then I am sunk.

Life as a dating mom is much tougher then I thought it would be two years ago. For the most part my kids like my boyfriend, but all three say he will never be called dad. That is fine by me, as I would not want them calling my ex-husband’s girlfriend mom. I am not being malicious or anything but I went to school with her and that would be quite the insult to me.

This is a personal blog and right about now it is going to get all kinds of personal. That is fair warning dear readers. It is hard to say who pissed me off more today. Could I be madder at my youngest child who told me no when I asked for help with the lawn? I dealt with that and it got better. Lawn still not mowed but I will do it in the morning when it is light.

Could it be my older son, whom I have given numerous chances at trust? He shows a huge lack of responsibility. He returned about forty dollars worth of cans for extra money. I said fine but asked him to bring me a case of Pepsi so I would not have to go out.  He totally blew me off he never came home.

Am I upset with my daughter who yelled at me because she was having a bad day? This is my house. She should not allow her kids to trash it if she feels lazy. I have enough work to do with articles, and regular housework on a daily basis. To make extra work for me is not nice. Although it is great some days that they are here, that is not the case everyday. It has gotten much worse since she went on this new birth control, Nuva ring. She is very moody these days.

Then it could be my boyfriend as well, who left town to go work in King of Prussia for three days. He will be working 8-hour shifts down there, same as he did here. However, he gets travel time, which is paid and this time around, it is about a day’s worth of pay. Now I will have to attend the viewing and funeral without him and that just burns me up.

Today had been one of those days when I wish I would have never crawled out of bed. Anyway, since it is almost midnight, and I got a good few hour nap I am up for the night. I hope that when it turns Wednesday in a few minutes that it begins a better day than yesterday was.

Associated content could make it a whole lot sweeter if they give me a nice update on time and up at least $60 bucks than the last update.

Luckily, that nasty flu bug is working its way out of here. I was not hit as hard as my kids and the grand kids were hit, thank God. I am glad they are all feeling better as the lawn needs to be mowed. Its most likely the last one of the season.  When you are single, most of the work falls on your shoulders that part sucks. Yes, I have two teenagers and a young adult daughter in the house, but they work outside the home.

 I wish I lived in the country, because I would buy a few goats and let them eat the grass.  Then I could milk the goat and make my own cheese, and have fresh milk. Screw that, I was raised in between farms and let me tell you they stunk.  My parents had horses, pigs, chickens and a few goats but never a big barn with cows.

Do you know what is cool about raising pigs? You get to ride them! Yes, I am quite serious I did that as a kids, to us kids they we like short fat slow moving horses. Yes I am rambling but it’s been that kind of day.